You've arrived here today for a reason:
You've done all the things you were “supposed” to do to be successful,
yet you still struggle to feel fulfilled and in control of your life and career.
Does any of this sound like you?
On the outside, you “have it all”, but on the inside, things are a mess.
On the outside, you “have it all”, but on the inside, things are a mess.
You’re going through the motions, but you find yourself unmotivated, uninspired, and disconnected from your own goals and desires.
You’re living on autopilot, doing what everyone expects and needs you to do, but the goals you’re chasing aren’t aligned with your own passions and interests.
The work that used to inspire you now leaves you feeling bored and disengaged; you’re not challenged or enjoying your work. You feel stagnant.
You feel like you can’t complain or make any changes because you “should” be happy and fulfilled with all you have!
Work/life balance feels like a MYTH and healthy boundaries are a pipe dream.
Work/life balance feels like a MYTH and healthy boundaries are a pipe dream.
Your job is all-consuming, leading to you neglecting yourself and your family. You’re missing out on the things that matter most to you.
You constantly worry about failing, letting people down who are counting on you, and not meeting the expectations you have set for yourself.
You find yourself unwilling or unable to delegate, give up control, or trust your team. You might even be a micromanager, which is exhausting for you and demoralizing for your team members.
You are always putting out fires, working in urgency, and you find yourself addicted to the adrenaline of being the go-to problem solver for everyone in your world.
You struggle with executive presence and feel disconnected from social circles in and out of work.
You struggle with executive presence and feel disconnected from social circles in and out of work.
You doubt your ability to make decisions under pressure and lack the “polish” that other leaders have.
You don’t always communicate in the way you’d like, and you struggle to influence others to see things your way.
Your lack of emotional control or emotional intelligence has pushed away team members or even clients.
Navigating office politics and other challenging relationships leaves you exhausted and feeling overwhelmed.
You’re a perfectionist and worry that if you can’t deliver on every expectation, people will discover you’re a fraud.
You’re a perfectionist and worry that if you can’t deliver on every expectation, people will discover you’re a fraud.
You set unrealistic and unattainable expectations for yourself and your team members.
You pretend everything is great and wear a mask, even when you know you’re drowning or need a break.
You struggle with imposter syndrome.
You doubt the value you bring to your team or your relationships, which prevents you from speaking up or showing up and the leader you want to be.
It’s time to:
✓ Go from living on autopilot to designing an impactful life with purpose
✓ Prioritize, act strategically, and focus on the most important things in your life
✓ Show up as the powerful and impactful leader you know you can be
✓ Recognize the inherent value of your skills and abilities
But to do this, you need to reconnect with your own values and goals, create boundaries for your time and energy, develop your executive presence, and address the unconscious habits you’ve created that keep you in your comfort zone.
How My Life-Aligned Leader Program Helped this HR Executive Conquer Imposter Syndrome and Build Her Confidence While Creating and Maintaining Work/Life Balance:
Laura has now created a life that is aligned with how she truly wants to be living. She is regularly exercising, prioritizing time for her own interests, and taking trips with friends and family. She continues to have an impact at work, with a bigger team, bigger paycheck, and a broader reach in her industry, yet she no longer compromises her own mental and emotional well-being or time with her family.
The Life-Aligned Leader Program Helps High-Performing Leaders Identify What’s Missing So They Can Prioritize and Achieve Their Own Goals Without Letting Anyone Down.
“Benah was instrumental in helping me identify and overcome limiting beliefs that held back my career.”
Jason was a high-level leader in the Navy who reached out when he was at a crossroads in his military career. He was seeking support in identifying what mattered most to him, where and how he wanted to focus his time, and determining what would truly make him happy in the next stage of his life and career.
Together, we built his confidence around what a life outside the military structure can look like for him and the value and impact he can have in his next professional adventures. He recommitted himself to the habits and behaviors that support the man, father, leader, and partner he wants to be. Today, he has his own leadership brand and inspires people inside and outside the military.
“Benah has been a life preserver in a sea of chaos. If you're looking for growth and willing to dig in, have a chat with Benah. You won't regret it.”
When Erick hired me, he was moving from an individual contributor role to leading a finance team across multiple sites. He had a promotion in his near future and wanted to become the leader he never had. Together, we strengthened his communication and influence skills, developed his executive presence, and helped him step into the higher levels of leadership to expand his impact.
He quickly landed a next level promotion. We then focused on designing the life he actually wanted to be living; setting boundaries for his time and energy so he could show up as the partner, parent, and leader he wanted to be; and setting clear and realistic expectations for himself and his team without needing to be perfect all the time. Ultimately, Erick created his ideal career path through multiple promotions, grew his family, and launched his passion project to impact climate change.
Results Like These are Possible for You.
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The Life-Aligned Leader Methodology
Alignment System
Many high-performing leaders find themselves going through the motions, but lacking control and fulfillment, and feeling uninspired, unmotivated, and disconnected from their own goals and desires.
We address this by creating your ultimate vision and an action plan to feel fulfilled and in control of your life again. We identify your true core values to unlock your most powerful source of motivation and create a plan to allow you to design a life with intention and purpose.
Balance System
When high-performing leaders struggle with boundaries, there’s no work/life balance, your job is all-consuming, and you begin to neglect yourself and your family. You end up always putting out fires, working in a state of hyper urgency, and addicted to the adrenaline.
We solve this by helping you own what you have control over and release what you can’t control. We create powerful boundaries for your time and energy and build a solid work/life balance so you can focus on what matters most - your health, your family, and your happiness.
Confidence System
Many high-performing leaders don’t know how to develop their executive presence, have poor communication and influence skills, or struggle with emotional intelligence. This can show up as challenges with navigating difficult relationships or dealing with office politics.
We solve this by helping you leverage the power of influence to create deeper connections and strengthen your communication skills. We help you learn to respond vs. react and to recognize and effectively communicate your own needs while managing challenging relationships.
Transformation System
Finally, we focus on the habits you never intended to pick up - like holding yourself and your team to unrealistic expectations, trying to be perfect all the time, pretending everything is great when you know you’re burned out and overwhelmed, doubting your value, and failing to show up as the leader you know you are.
We solve this by setting clear and realistic expectations for yourself and your team, and helping you recognize, interrupt, and replace the habits that aren’t serving you. We create the psychological safety to be human and not wear the mask of perfection.
Additional Client Results from the Life-Aligned Leader Program
“Benah has listened, counseled, challenged and held me accountable to making changes to my habits and how I show up in my life.”
“Benah has listened, counseled, challenged and held me accountable to making changes to my habits and how I show up in my life.”
Todd was a high-performing leader and known as a reliable problem solver for his team. When we began working together, he was struggling with putting boundaries on his work commitments and going through the motions to make the people around him happy, but the status quo was leaving him uninspired, unmotivated, and lacking the passion for his life that he desired.
We worked together to clear out the habits that didn’t support any of his goals – professional or personal – and used tools and processes to help him manage his time better, identify the things that matter most to him, and create the space he needed to feel fulfilled and focused on his balance and wellbeing.
“Benah helped me to become a stronger leader and better align my goals with how I show up to work.”
“Benah helped me to become a stronger leader and better align my goals with how I show up to work.”
Rob was a Supply Chain Executive in the Aerospace industry who had expertise, but his communication style and ability to work with other senior leaders was not aligned with the company culture. Before working together, Rob was lacking the inspiration he’d felt in previous roles and didn’t know how to show up as the leader he wanted to be.
We focused on developing executive presence, improving communication and influence, and strengthening his ability to deal with conflict. He learned to control his emotional responses and effectively influence his team members in alignment with the organizational culture. After developing his own vision for his career, Rob was recruited by Amazon, where he has been promoted twice and now oversees multiple sites for the company.
"Benah has been my cheerleader as I weather the ups and downs of a job search in a time of social isolation.”
"Benah has been my cheerleader as I weather the ups and downs of a job search in a time of social isolation.”
When I met Wendy, she was struggling with a challenging work experience during the pandemic. Her self-doubt was at an all-time high, despite being a high-performing leader and delivering excellent results for her team and her organization. We explored the unconscious limiting beliefs behind those doubts, helped her process the feedback she had received, and created a path to use that feedback to build her resilience and her confidence.
In just a few months, we identified her strategies for success, processed her career options, and she landed her dream nonprofit leadership role at a time when many organizations were cutting staff and resources.
“Benah helps you become the best version of your authentic self.”
“Benah helps you become the best version of your authentic self.”
When I met Paula, one of her big life goals was creating her empire so she could live the life of her dreams. She had a vision, but she was pulled in so many directions, she was struggling to focus on what was actually going to help her reach her goals.
We focused on developing clarity and alignment so she could effectively prioritize what was actually part of her vision to be more intentional with her time and be able to eliminate the busy work that others expected her to perform for their outcomes. She transformed her habits to support the person she always knew she could be and learned to celebrate the growth process for herself.
“What I valued most about Benah was her ability to guide my thinking toward solutions rather than simply prescribing them."
“What I valued most about Benah was her ability to guide my thinking toward solutions rather than simply prescribing them."
Michael, the head of sales for a rapidly growing tech company, was overwhelmed, over-extended, and in need of a reset to better lead his team. He was a high-performing problem solver and used to jumping from one fire to the next, but he was neglecting the importance of being present and engaged with his team and in personal relationships.
We focused on developing prioritization and time management skills, aligning Michael’s day-to-day activities with his passions and expertise, and replacing the habits that had made him successful but overworked. He learned to identify which fires were his to put out and which he needed to delegate so he could find the balance he needed to be available to his team and present for his family.
“Benah is truly transformational. She helped me see what I could be capable of, and I'm better for it.”
“Benah is truly transformational. She helped me see what I could be capable of, and I'm better for it.”
When I met Meghan, she was seeking support moving forward in her public affairs career after a few years at a job that had decimated her confidence. She wanted a role that was more fulfilling professionally and which allowed her to create more balance and harmony between work and her personal life.
In a few months, we built her confidence in her expertise, honed her communication and influence skills, and refocused her career on the areas where she wanted to have the most impact. Now, she is in an executive role that allows her to showcase her exceptional policy and advocacy skills while still being able to prioritize her life outside the office.
“Benah is a wonderful person and a talented executive coach. She is able to help people move past some of the mental barriers that keep them from making progress toward their goals.”
“Benah is a wonderful person and a talented executive coach. She is able to help people move past some of the mental barriers that keep them from making progress toward their goals.”
Kim reached out at a time when she was evaluating a successful career in fundraising and development, yet she was feeling disengaged, frustrated, and burned out from her interactions with clients. Her expertise and experience were not being valued, and she was lacking fulfillment in her work. We prioritized exploring what she wanted most from the latter part of her professional life, setting boundaries on her commitments inside and outside of work, and strengthening her ability to communicate her needs and expectations. With a clear vision for her own priorities, she challenged her limiting beliefs and embarked on a relaunch of her own consulting business.
With the Life-Aligned Leader Program, Our Goal is to Help you Achieve Yours.
With the Life-Aligned Leader Program, Our Goal is to Help you Achieve Yours.
Whether you want to be the leader you’ve never had, have more of an impact in your daily life, or are seeking more balance and fulfillment, we provide the support, resources, and accountability needed for you to make a sustainable change and live a life aligned with your dreams.
You will not only receive transformational coaching and personalized support to align your life and career with your own goals, but you will also access a long-term relationship and resources designed to provide guidance for the internal and external roadblocks, challenges, and obstacles that may arise along the path to creating a life aligned with your dreams.
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